From the beginning of time, women are said to be highly emotional whilst men are depicted as logical beings. With this as a base, gender clashes are a MUST in relationship and if not handled well, can lead to infidelity (cheating) or breakups.
Here are the relationship killers for MEN.
#5: Stalker tendencies. Men hate the snooping around their things and that can most times trigger off distance. If he can’t trust you, he is going to stray. Learn to leave your man’s private things alone like his wallet, his drawers, his car, his phone, his FaceBook account etc. This should be said to you ladies, if you have to play detective – end that relationship. Once there is no trust, there will be no real relationship.
#4: Demanding. Men detest when women believe that they are the BOSS. Women were created from the beginning to be submissive which put men in leadership. Now I am not saying women are not to have standards and everything their men say, it is so. What I am saying is this, leave the man to be a man and simply just be HIS woman. Give him space to go out with friends, give him space to think, to breathe. Stop with the demands.
#3: “Attentionist”. Because women are emotional beings, they do require attention and men do know this. The problem lies when it is demanded in such a way that it puts strain on other areas of the man’s life. If the man, ladies, gives you all his attention, where in that is time left for him, his family, and his job? Therefore, it is encouraged that women be more understanding and also develop an autonomous life where they are not dependent solemnly on a man’s time and attention.
#2: Sex-Prude. Men love sex. It is imperative to them as it is a means for them to escape from reality and also as a means to express their emotions. Now, when a relationship starts with fire, it is expected by the men that this fire will keep burning. Ladies, you can’t start by making love to the man 5 times per day and then after a year, you only think of sex once every 3 months. This is a serious issue in marriages too as wives used to ensure their husbands’ sexual needs were fully met until kids. Ladies, you must ensure your man/partner sexual needs are met. Be creative and stop with the boring sex-life. If your man wakes up and he wants you, give him you. NEVER, I repeat, NEVER you deny your man sex!
#1: “Champion NAGGIST”. Proverbs 25:24 quotes “Better to live on the roof than to share the house with a nagging wife”. Ladies, men hate nagging women. If everything is a problem that they do or don’t do, he is going to eventually gets tired and cheat or simply walk away. Men wants to know that their women understands them and accept them. If it is you are always complaining, I encourage you to stop or that man will soon be someone else’s. Develop a sense of humour and relax yourself. Be your man’s “homie” – someone he can relates to and won’t feel like he is being judged or later in the night he will be punished.
At the end of the day, men are simple. They simply want to be loved just like you.