Women often wonder why their committed partner of many years doesn’t find them sexually attractive anymore or simply not romantic anymore. Here are some of the reasons. Of course, there will always be exemptions to the rules.
These are the TURN-OFFS
– Ladies, you must ensure your personal hygiene is classy and not trashy. BATHE! COMB YOUR HAIR! SPRAY SOME PERFUME on you!
A man respond through their senses which means if one of the five senses sense that something is wrong, all other senses will shut down. Ensure that your lady-parts are clean. Remember that while a man sexual tool is external, yours is internal, so if not washed properly can entertain odour and that is a total knock-out!
#6: GRANDMA “BAGGY” UNDIES & THE MASK – Ladies, what a man sees is what he will respond to. It is not that you should be in lingerie every night but try to have sexy garments for the bedroom. Going to bed in a long gown is telling the man that you don’t find him sexually appealing. Women, whether or not you desire to accept it, it is your responsibility to ensure that the love-zone is ignited. “Okay, it is one of those nights” – you don’t want that. If you are not in the mood, don’t forget that he is still looking and still admiring so don’t give him reasons to look elsewhere. Do your beauty regime when he is not present. Get rid of the panties that are a bit large and get into some comfy but sexy under-clothes. I know you desire to keep your skin and hair in great health but wearing rollers and a facial mask to bed is a NO-NO.
#5: The Workaholic
– A man loves an independent woman and he finds it sexy to know she can hold down her own but when it interferes in the bedroom, he is going to stray.
Too much of anything can be destructive and with that in mind, LEAVE WORK AT WORK! Stop taking home work and stop talking about work. Sometimes when a man asks you how your day was, he really just wants to make love to you. Take a hint.
#4: The Social-Addict – Sometimes it is best to leave your cell-phone out the bedroom. It can be a HUGE turn off. In fact, most time breakups are derived from the cellphone. Sad to say but technology has become one major calamity for relationships as persons stick unto their phones as if it is the very air they breathe.
#3: The Goody-Two Shoes – A man desires a lady in the street but when that door is closed, he wants a woman that will connect with him. Ladies, the reason a lot of men stray is simply because you won’t do what another woman will. A man will be married but has a side-chick because what the wife will say no to, the side-chick won’t hesitate to do.
The wife will say no to going on top and taking control, the side-chick on the other hand will be rodeo girl all night. Stop with the “stush” behaviour – this is your man so own it.
#2: The Faker – Ladies, men know when you are faking it. He knows that whatever is going on between the sheets cannot make you scream the way you are. A man also knows when you do have an orgasm so stop with the pretence. Just relax and enjoy. That is why it is imperative that you know your partner sexually because if he is doing exactly what you love, you have absolutely no reason to fake it. Once you fake it, he is out of it.
#1: The Sex-Expert – A man wants to know that his personal woman is immaculate. Despite what you heard ladies, if you are the one teaching your man how to swing on the chandelier and slide down a pole upside down, that relationship is in trouble. He will start to wonder where you learn that and also insinuates that you had loads of experience before him with different men and despite the belief that men are logical beings, they are also emotional.
This will trigger assumptions and I must say, he will continue to come to you because you are a SEX-EXPERT! But will he put a ring on it knowing/assuming how experienced you are, or commit to you alone?